What It's Like to Be a Client of Quantum Empowerment

Hello all! Welcome to my blog.

I’m guessing you’re here because you want to get to know yourself a little better or you’re struggling a bit. Let me ask you this: Do you get stressed out with life and just want someone to tell you what to do? To give you the answer that you’ve been desperately hoping would become obvious to you?

Well, as your therapist or life coach, I’m not going to have all the answers. I’m not supposed to. Life doesn’t come with answers. It’s about having the calmness and mental flexibility of seeing the options. And then having the courage and autonomy to choose the option that feels right for you. I can’t give you that answer. But I can help you find the answer for yourself.

Why can’t I just tell you what to do? Should you leave your partner? Should you take that new job? Should you move across the country and take that chance of a new life? Wouldn’t it be nice if I was your magic 8 ball? Maybe for a little bit. But if I tell you what to do and it doesn’t work out, now you have me to blame. And if I tell you what to do and it does work out, now you have me to thank. Where do you come into play in your own life? You’ve got the autonomy here. You get to decide. You have power. You’re just also experiencing some fear – and it’s probably paralyzing you.

So if fear is the bad guy, let’s just get rid of that, right? Well, that’s not how it works either. Fear is actually not the bad guy. It’s just an emotion. Just a normal reaction to life experiences and stressors. I get it. Wouldn’t life be so much better if we didn’t have emotions like fear holding us back? Sure! But wouldn’t it also be nice to have fear work in our favor when we need it? Like when we encounter a mountain lion out in the wilderness. Yeah, I want my natural fight-or-flight to kick in in that moment. Or like when we get a sense of danger about a fishy text we just received about owing money? Yeah, I want my hackles to go up about someone targeting me for a scam. So we don’t actually want to get rid of fear. We just don’t like it being in our way.

What if you could live life choosing when to listen to your fear and when to let it just sit on the sidelines? That’s when you reclaim your power. That’s when you get to start living the life you actually desire and envision. You know, that life you see someone else living that fills you with jealousy, sadness, or anger.

Okay, you’ve stayed with me this far. So you’re probably saying, “Yeah, that. That’s what I want. How do I do that? Do you have the magic potion?” No. No, I don’t. But you do. You just haven’t learned the tools – or the most effective way to use them – in order to unlock this power yet. Don’t worry. It’s all there for you to take. You just have to learn how to do it. But the potential for success, health, happiness, and abundance is already in you. “Great, another ‘just be you’ article…” I know, I get it. Yes, be you. Yes, live your best life. But again, how??? You want it immediately, right? Let’s do it then. Both therapy and life coaching are about learning new tools and figuring out how to use all of them to create your dream. Do I have tools that can help you feel better right away? Sure I do. Do I have tools that you’ll have to learn to hone over time? Yes, I’ve got those too. In my opinion, both personal and professional, you need both to be really successful, and I mean that in terms of “reaching your goals” whatever those may be. Not just money. However you define success. Therapy and life coaching are about you. You learning how you’ve gotten in your own way in the past, and how you can get out of your way. Even better, how can you take those “roadblocks” and use them to your advantage? Just like with the fear.

If you’re looking for someone to tell you what to do to better your life, that’s not me. But if you are looking for someone to guide you along self-exploration, to teach you tools and skills, and to empower you to see your own talents, courage, and adaptability, then that’s me. I’m going to stand by your side and provide you with my skillset to help you get to where you want to go. I’m not going to steal your credit. I’m here to watch you succeed in whatever way feels right for you, and I’m going to make sure you find your own autonomy on that path.

If that’s what you’re looking for, drop me a line. Let’s figure out how we can reach those goals. I look forward to meeting you!